Dear Friends, We all know that when a decision must be made, it is best that everyone who has a stake in its outcome is part of the decision-making process. Not that everyone has a right to decide but everyone has a right to inform the decision. What happens then if the one who will be most affected by the decision is unable to voice his or her views and requests? Last Saturday, 12 persons came together for a meeting to discuss the care arrangements for an infant we shall call Richie. His mother has been struggling with his care …