By: Nina, Community Relations
I met Atiqah ten years ago when I was a Community Worker. It was at a photography workshop we had organized for youths. She was a shy, soft-spoken 16-year-old. Her family had only recently moved in, so she didn’t know any other youths in the neighborhood yet. Throughout the few sessions we held, she mostly kept to herself, except when she offered to help me with minor tasks. Despite her discomfort being around others, she always showed up when invited to our programmes. I always admired Atiqah’s quiet determination and was pleased to see her slowly come out of her shell with each programme. After a few months, I was posted to another department and lost touch with her.
Fast-forward to a community event last month. I saw a familiar face confidently leading a group of volunteers, sharing stories about her neighbourhood. It was Atiqah. During the break, I approached her. She greeted me warmly. I told her I was so impressed by how she was “holding court” with the volunteers, and she sheepishly admitted to still being a little socially awkward. I assured her, she was doing an amazing job. I couldn’t help feeling like a proud parent knowing she was now a youth leader in her neighbourhood.
I asked her about her journey over the past decade and why she continues to give back to her community, despite her “social awkwardness.” She shared how programmes like HeadStrong (Beyobd’s youth mental health programme), introduced her to mentors who guided her, life-long friends who supported her, and presented volunteer opportunities that gradually built her confidence. These experiences fueled her passion to reach out to others who may be going through similar struggles. She said with all earnestness, “I volunteer because I want to give back the same way I was helped.”
Atiqah’s journey is a testament to the power of community support and the ripple effect it can have. Her transformation from a timid teenager to a confident leader is living proof of what is possible when opportunities are provided for growth and development. Atiqah’s story is just one of many in the communities we serve—people who choose to help others despite their challenges.
Between helping her mum run a food stall and exploring options to further her education to land a job in early childhood education, Atiqah still finds time to volunteer.
She gives her time to pay it forward.
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